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Affirmations

Last week, I talked about creating positive things in your life. One way to do that is by using affirmations.

Put simply, an affirmation is a positive statement that one uses to build positive energy around something that they want. Some people might be familiar with the “affirmations” used by the Saturday Night Live character Stuart Smalley, whose “I’m good enough, I’m smart enough, and doggone it, people like me” became so well known that people who never even watched the show started quoting it. The character and his affirmation was intended as humor, but he wasn’t far off.

Affirmations can make us feel more positive about ourselves and our lives, and being positive helps bring more positives. The trick about affirmations is to only use positive phrasing; if you say, “I intend that I won’t fail science,” you’re sending the wrong message!

In my Reality Shift books, Jonah Leighton teaches his friend Shanna Bailey about affirmations, and they each develop some of their own. Here are some examples; feel free to use them.

I intend that today be to my highest benefit.

I intend to remain calm in all situations.

I have more than enough money for all I want and need.

I want more vitality for myself. (or fill in the name of someone else you want good health/positive things for.)

I am strong and powerful.

I create my own reality.

Only good things come to me.

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A Voice Never To Be Heard Again – Whitney Houston

The death of songstress Whitney Houston floored me but not so much for my teens. I tried to explain to them how as a teenager I played over and over again her songs. “I want to dance with somebody who loves me,” was my clean the house music growing up. Somehow the song made the boring routine of what I had to do seem glamorous. Her songs, “Didn’t we almost have it all” and “Saving all my love for you,” made me weep—the depth of emotion her voice had on me, like many, touched my soul. So, yes, me the 43 year-old mom of four was truly saddened with the loss of this amazing woman who poured her love and soul into her passion—music.

And passion is what Whitney had and all could easily hear. She was guided by other proud black singers like her own mother, gospel singer Cissy Houston, godmother Aretha Franklin, and cousin Dionne Warwick (whose music my father loved). While Houston hit hard times, I’m going to remember her for her voice and not the bad choices she made.

Choices and passion those are two things I talk to my own teens about a lot. I also try to highlight those key words when writing my nitty gritty young adult series. I’m currently finishing first draft read of the third book in my nitty gritty series called Off Stroke. And like Whitney my character is smart and gifted playing the violin, but he’s making the wrong choices. But like Whitney he does get a break and he seizes the opportunity to escape. In the end is that the right choice or wrong. Well, I don’t want to spoil it for my readers.

What I do plan to do though is get a brand new Whitney Houston CD so I can blast her soulful music for my young daughter. I want her to absorb Houston’s music like I did and never forget the sound of that passion.

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Introducing Jo Ramsey

Happy Sunday! This is my first post for YA Beyond, and I’m pleased to have been invited to join such a great group. For today, I just wanted to let you all know who I am.

I’ve been writing since I was five, but it took me a while to get published because I didn’t think I was good enough. My first young adult novel, Connection, book one in my YA urban fantasy series Reality Shift, came out from Jupiter Gardens Press in January 2010. Since then, books two through five in that series have also been released, along with books one and two in another YA series, The Dark Lines. I’ve also had a contemporary YA novel, Cluing In, released from Featherweight Press, and a contemporary YA short story “Life Skills” was just released this past week from Featherweight as part of their Helping Hands line. (Royalties from Helping Hands stories go to benefit charities, chosen by each author, that support GLBTQ youth.)

When I was in school, I was bullied. A lot. And I was kind of bullied at home, too. That shows up in some of my books; I have characters who are bullied or who are abused verbally and/or physically by their parents. The biggest thing I want readers to take away from my books isn’t what the characters are going through or have gone through, though. The biggest thing is what those characters do in spite of everything. I have characters who do everything from healing after the suicide of a loved one to saving the entire universe from vaporization. My tagline is “Anyone can be a hero,” and I truly believe that.

I’m looking forward to posting here on Sundays, and to reading the other posts and comments. Thanks to the YA Beyonders for inviting me to join, and to the readers for reading!

 

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Insecurity? Teen years are filled with it

Insecurity is a feeling of general unease or nervousness that may be triggered by perceiving of oneself to be vulnerable in some way, or a sense of vulnerability or instability which threatens one’s self-image or ego, writes
Wikipedia. Now if that doesn’t scream teen years I don’t know what else does. I recently had to have this discussion with my husband who doesn’t understand
that while a teen might come off as being self-assured, even cocky that doesn’t mean they’re not suffering with self-image or low self-esteem issues.

You see I have a teenager who is academically smart and comes across as being okay with the world. He’s not. Christmas Eve at my house was an eye opener. He basically told us he feels like he has no friends and no one likes him. Behind that I also heard he doesn’t know what to do. So how do you deal with a teenager declaring that? What did I have to give? Only my motherly love and reassurance that he’ll make more friends. But with this decree was a caution. I want my son to make the ‘right’ friends – you heard me. He’s so keen to make friends I don’t want him to stray down the wrong path.

I tried to give him advice. I had one good friend in high school who I shared everything with. Maybe lots of friends sounds nice but one good friend could be better.  Then I told him that while school is hard, so is life but we, as parents, would be there to help and guide him. Then I got to thinking—maybe we’re setting too high expectations of him. We want him to go to university, so he’ll have a better chance of getting a good job so grades are important. What’s more important to me, is a well-rounded self-assured teen. One not so worried he’s too skinny, to short, not athletically well-rounded and maybe one that doesn’t care what others think of him.

And all of this got me thinking these issues are exactly what my character in my 3rd nitty gritty book is going through. Smart teen, but insecurity might as well be stamped on his forehead. The good news is I’ve got him trying new things, and a parent-like figure trying to help him.

Teen years are hard so all I can do as a mother is be there, engage him, praise him and encourage him. I certainly wasn’t a confident teen but I also had thick skin and realized the only person willing to help me get out of where I was was me. Self reliance might have been a good thing.

I’d love to hear from you. As a teen did you suffer with insecurity, low self esteem? Or did you have that no-care attitude that helped you tackle the strange world of high school.

 

 

 

 

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Unique YA publisher – Featherweight Press

This Monday I’m sharing my interview with Ralph Gallagher, Editor, Featherweight Press who will talk about what Featherweight Press publishes and his Helping Hands project.  We’d love to hear from you. Send any questions our way and we’ll pass along to Ralph or check out Featherweight Press.

Featherweight Press is a unique YA publisher, can you explain what they publish?

Featherweight Press publishes quality Young Adult and Children’s manuscripts. We have a tendency to take the “riskier” subjects that most mainstream YA presses won’t take. We’re open to LGBT stories and stories dealing with real issues that teens face. We have stories about cross-dressing teens, teens who commit suicide, teens who’ve been abused, and teens who cut themselves.  If it’s a good story, we’ll consider it.

Are you a print and e-book publisher? How many books a year do you publish?

We are a print and e-book publisher. Our books are available worldwide. The number of books we publish each year varies based on the number of submissions we have and how long they take to edit. For 2012 we have currently have fifteen books planned for release and that number is expect
to increase.

 

How do you attract teen readers?

We’re attracting teen readers by putting out stories teens want to read. We’re not sticking to the usual plot arcs that major publishers love. There is more to the YA genre than love triangles and we want to show that. We have stories that kids can relate to. Whether you’re a gay teen who wants to read about other gay teens saving the world, or a teen that cuts and wants to read about how other teens deal with it, we have something for everyone.

What is the helping hands project?

The Helping Hands project is my baby at Featherweight Press. They’re stories that focus on LGBT character and their issues. Some of the stories focus on the character’s sexuality or gender identity as the plot point, while others the characters just happen to be LGBT. All stories published under the Helping Hands line have their author and editor royalties donated to a charity that helps LGBT youth that the author chooses.

     As an editor, explain what you bring to Featherweight Press (ie: is there one specific genre you prefer or are looking to see in YA books)

I work mostly on Featherweight Press’s young adult books. Since I’m still young myself, I’m able to read through manuscripts and look at them from a young person’s perspective. I’m good at seeing if dialog or actions are something a real teenager would do.  And if there’s something I’m unsure of, I have plenty of teens that I can contact and ask if it’s something they’d do. I work across all genres and have worked on everything from fantasy to romance to mystery novels.

I’m also the one responsible for the Helping Hands line. It was my idea after seeing a blog post by an author and I stepped up to take on the work. It has been a way for me to give back to the LGBT community as well as learn more about it in the process.

How best would a writer submit to Featherweight Press?Featherweight Press’s submission guidelines can be found at

 

 

http://featherweightpublishing.com/submissions.php

We accept submissions all year long from authors of any age. If you have a manuscript you think we’d like, feel free to send it in to us! All submissions get read. If your manuscript doesn’t fit with us, you’ll still receive a letter from our senior editor detailing the reasons and offering you advice on what we recommend working on.

How would a writer go about submitting to the Helping Hands line?Helping Hands submissions are also accepted all year longer. Stories can be any length and the only requirement is that they focus on an LGBT character or issue. We’ll consider both Young Adult and Children’s stories. Genre is wide open; we’ll gladly accept any fantasy, sci-fi, etc. so long as there is the focus on an LGBT character or issue. And the character’s sexuality or gender identity doesn’t need to be the focus. If the story is about a gay/bisexual/trans* boy saving the world from man eating plants we’d be glad to consider it. (We do seem to have a distinct lack of lesbian stories, however. Wink wink.)

Submissions can be sent to the general submissions email listed at http://featherweightpublishing.com/submissions.php
just make sure to mention it’s a Helping Hands submission.

 

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